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SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
LIVING WITH TRAUMA AT A TIME OF TRAUMA: COVID-19 ONE YEAR When Covid-19 closed down the UK a year ago, it took me as a counsellor a while to adapt to a new way of working and living. It was only when the dust had settled that I began to realise what we were dealing with – a far-reaching and indiscriminate collective trauma. What was more alarming was realising that many of our instinctual responses to trauma were suddenly banned – we weren’t EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKERANNUAL REPORTS
Below you will find our annual reports, signed accounts and our memorandum of association. Signed Accounts 2018. Signed Accounts 2017. Signed Accounts 2016. Signed Accounts 2015. Signed Accounts 2014. Signed Accounts 2013. Signed Accounts 2012. Signed Accounts 2011.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I SURVIVORSUK AND WESTMINSTER HOMELESSNESS PROJECTS SurvivorsUK and Westminster Homelessness Projects have created a partnership arrangement to deliver therapeutic services to people who have experienced trauma and live the history of that trauma in the context of homelessness. This unique project brings therapy to those who would not be able to access traditional services. MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
LIVING WITH TRAUMA AT A TIME OF TRAUMA: COVID-19 ONE YEAR When Covid-19 closed down the UK a year ago, it took me as a counsellor a while to adapt to a new way of working and living. It was only when the dust had settled that I began to realise what we were dealing with – a far-reaching and indiscriminate collective trauma. What was more alarming was realising that many of our instinctual responses to trauma were suddenly banned – we weren’t EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKERANNUAL REPORTS
Below you will find our annual reports, signed accounts and our memorandum of association. Signed Accounts 2018. Signed Accounts 2017. Signed Accounts 2016. Signed Accounts 2015. Signed Accounts 2014. Signed Accounts 2013. Signed Accounts 2012. Signed Accounts 2011.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I SURVIVORSUK AND WESTMINSTER HOMELESSNESS PROJECTS SurvivorsUK and Westminster Homelessness Projects have created a partnership arrangement to deliver therapeutic services to people who have experienced trauma and live the history of that trauma in the context of homelessness. This unique project brings therapy to those who would not be able to access traditional services. MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
TRAINING | SURVIVORSUK Training. SurvivorsUK offers professional training on providing services to male survivors and the impact of sexual abuse and rape on men and boys. We offer this training to individuals and organisations at competitive rates from our premises in East London or, depending on numbers, at a rented space nearby. To make a booking please complete INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING FOR SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN How to get started with individual counselling. 1 Contact Us. You make a self referral; 2 Assessment. We will contact you to organise an initial consultation; 3 Discussion. In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or groupwork at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you. 4 Confirmation INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
MEET THE TEAM
Alex is the Chief Executive Officer of Survivors UK. He has almost eight years as a CEO in the third sector, has developed innovative services supporting marginalised people in a criminal justice context and has also worked as a political advisor. His most recent role was as CEO of RightsInfo, a charity which promotes human rights in the UKand
SEX, DRUGS, AND HIV
Sex, Drugs, and HIV is a music project by male rape survivor Mat Sargent who contracted HIV from his ordeal. Started in 1995 the huge recording project took 20 years to complete with over 200 guest musicians from some of the biggest names in rock, punk, ska, pop. After being abused as aSEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life.OUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant BEING A MAN FESTIVAL @SOUTHBANK CENTRE We are happy to announce that we will be at the Being A Man Festival this year! Being A Man celebrates boys and men, and addresses the pressures of masculine identity in the 21st century. Now in its third year, this major new festival returns to take over Southbank Centrefor three days in
IMAGE BASED SEXUAL ABUSE ENDED MY LIFE Image Based Sexual Abuse, or IBSA, is where a person shares, or takes, an image of you without your consent. You might have shared an image of yourself via a dating app like Grindr, which has found its way into a more public domain. Or at the extreme end of the scale, someone might have betrayed your trust and webcam streamed, or recorded, an LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans andSURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
LIVING WITH TRAUMA AT A TIME OF TRAUMA: COVID-19 ONE YEAR When Covid-19 closed down the UK a year ago, it took me as a counsellor a while to adapt to a new way of working and living. It was only when the dust had settled that I began to realise what we were dealing with – a far-reaching and indiscriminate collective trauma. What was more alarming was realising that many of our instinctual responses to trauma were suddenly banned – we weren’t EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKERANNUAL REPORTS
Below you will find our annual reports, signed accounts and our memorandum of association. Signed Accounts 2018. Signed Accounts 2017. Signed Accounts 2016. Signed Accounts 2015. Signed Accounts 2014. Signed Accounts 2013. Signed Accounts 2012. Signed Accounts 2011.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I SURVIVORSUK AND WESTMINSTER HOMELESSNESS PROJECTS SurvivorsUK and Westminster Homelessness Projects have created a partnership arrangement to deliver therapeutic services to people who have experienced trauma and live the history of that trauma in the context of homelessness. This unique project brings therapy to those who would not be able to access traditional services. MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
LIVING WITH TRAUMA AT A TIME OF TRAUMA: COVID-19 ONE YEAR When Covid-19 closed down the UK a year ago, it took me as a counsellor a while to adapt to a new way of working and living. It was only when the dust had settled that I began to realise what we were dealing with – a far-reaching and indiscriminate collective trauma. What was more alarming was realising that many of our instinctual responses to trauma were suddenly banned – we weren’t EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKERANNUAL REPORTS
Below you will find our annual reports, signed accounts and our memorandum of association. Signed Accounts 2018. Signed Accounts 2017. Signed Accounts 2016. Signed Accounts 2015. Signed Accounts 2014. Signed Accounts 2013. Signed Accounts 2012. Signed Accounts 2011.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I SURVIVORSUK AND WESTMINSTER HOMELESSNESS PROJECTS SurvivorsUK and Westminster Homelessness Projects have created a partnership arrangement to deliver therapeutic services to people who have experienced trauma and live the history of that trauma in the context of homelessness. This unique project brings therapy to those who would not be able to access traditional services. MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
SEX, DRUGS, AND HIV
Sex, Drugs, and HIV is a music project by male rape survivor Mat Sargent who contracted HIV from his ordeal. Started in 1995 the huge recording project took 20 years to complete with over 200 guest musicians from some of the biggest names in rock, punk, ska, pop. After being abused as a INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING FOR SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN How to get started with individual counselling. 1 Contact Us. You make a self referral; 2 Assessment. We will contact you to organise an initial consultation; 3 Discussion. In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or groupwork at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you. 4 ConfirmationMEET THE TEAM
Alex is the Chief Executive Officer of Survivors UK. He has almost eight years as a CEO in the third sector, has developed innovative services supporting marginalised people in a criminal justice context and has also worked as a political advisor. His most recent role was as CEO of RightsInfo, a charity which promotes human rights in the UKand
OUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevantSEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. BEING A MAN FESTIVAL @SOUTHBANK CENTRE We are happy to announce that we will be at the Being A Man Festival this year! Being A Man celebrates boys and men, and addresses the pressures of masculine identity in the 21st century. Now in its third year, this major new festival returns to take over Southbank Centrefor three days in
SELF REFERRAL FORM
This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Out of these, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. IMAGE BASED SEXUAL ABUSE ENDED MY LIFE Image Based Sexual Abuse, or IBSA, is where a person shares, or takes, an image of you without your consent. You might have shared an image of yourself via a dating app like Grindr, which has found its way into a more public domain. Or at the extreme end of the scale, someone might have betrayed your trust and webcam streamed, or recorded, an LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans andSURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans and MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
WHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD)SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans andWHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
RESOURCES FOR MALE SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE London Survivors Gateway. The London Survivors Gateway provides survivors of rape and sexual abuse with tailored advice on getting support in London, and help with accessing available services and resources. You can contact them directly or be referred by a NATIONAL ONLINE HELPLINE SurvivorsUK run the National Male Survivors Online Helpline and Webchat Service which is a chat service for men who have experienced sexual abuse either as a child or an adult and allows you to have a confidential one-to-one chat with one of our trained helpliners. We also speak to close friends and family. Our helpliners are experienced in supporting you to share things at your own pace, when INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING FOR SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN How to get started with individual counselling. 1 Contact Us. You make a self referral; 2 Assessment. We will contact you to organise an initial consultation; 3 Discussion. In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or groupwork at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you. 4 Confirmation TRIBULATION; ENDURED Adam Keane is running a half marathon to raise money for SurvivorsUK. Here, he writes to capture the emotion of his experience – to reframe and remember it from where he stands now in the present. Please support Adam’s half marathon here. Tribulation; Endured – Adam Keane Here in the toilets of the slaughterhouse. I COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT MALE SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE Common Questions. Experiences of male sexual abuse and rape can leave you confused with many unanswered questions. Here we have compiled some of the questions we EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKER Emotional Support Worker. Location: London, E1W 3HW on weekdays; home working at weekends. Pay: £16.32 per hour. Hours: Flexible (see details below) + 2-4 hours per month of team meetings, supervision and line management. Contract: Zero-hours, fixed term INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) Location: East London with some London/UK travel Salary: £28,000 – £30,000 pro rata Hours: 17.5 hours/week (days flexible) Contract: 12 month fixed term contract (possible renewal thereafter dependent on funding) Job Category: Client Services Responsible for: N/A Responsible to: ISVA & Operations Manager Closing Date: 07 October 2019 (9am) Could you support men who have experienced MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW Abuse against adults falls into the following broad categories: Under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence for any male to penetrate with his penis the vagina, anus or mouth of a female or male without their consent. Male rape became recognised in law in 1994 JOB TITLE: INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) Job Title: Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (ISVA) Salary: £28,560 pro rata Reporting to: ISVA Coordinator Hours: Full time Location: London Contract: This is a permanent contract. Purpose Provide pro-active emotional, practical and advocacy support for malesurvivors with
SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans and MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
WHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD)SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans andWHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
RESOURCES FOR MALE SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE London Survivors Gateway. The London Survivors Gateway provides survivors of rape and sexual abuse with tailored advice on getting support in London, and help with accessing available services and resources. You can contact them directly or be referred by aCONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
NATIONAL ONLINE HELPLINE SurvivorsUK run the National Male Survivors Online Helpline and Webchat Service which is a chat service for men who have experienced sexual abuse either as a child or an adult and allows you to have a confidential one-to-one chat with one of our trained helpliners. We also speak to close friends and family. Our helpliners are experienced in supporting you to share things at your own pace, when TRIBULATION; ENDURED Adam Keane is running a half marathon to raise money for SurvivorsUK. Here, he writes to capture the emotion of his experience – to reframe and remember it from where he stands now in the present. Please support Adam’s half marathon here. Tribulation; Endured – Adam Keane Here in the toilets of the slaughterhouse. I COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKER Emotional Support Worker. Location: London, E1W 3HW on weekdays; home working at weekends. Pay: £16.32 per hour. Hours: Flexible (see details below) + 2-4 hours per month of team meetings, supervision and line management. Contract: Zero-hours, fixed term COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT MALE SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE Common Questions. Experiences of male sexual abuse and rape can leave you confused with many unanswered questions. Here we have compiled some of the questions weOUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW Abuse against adults falls into the following broad categories: Under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence for any male to penetrate with his penis the vagina, anus or mouth of a female or male without their consent. Male rape became recognised in law in 1994 JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD)SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans and MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
WHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD)SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans and MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
WHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD) RESOURCES FOR MALE SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE London Survivors Gateway. The London Survivors Gateway provides survivors of rape and sexual abuse with tailored advice on getting support in London, and help with accessing available services and resources. You can contact them directly or be referred by aCONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
NATIONAL ONLINE HELPLINE SurvivorsUK run the National Male Survivors Online Helpline and Webchat Service which is a chat service for men who have experienced sexual abuse either as a child or an adult and allows you to have a confidential one-to-one chat with one of our trained helpliners. We also speak to close friends and family. Our helpliners are experienced in supporting you to share things at your own pace, when TRIBULATION; ENDURED Adam Keane is running a half marathon to raise money for SurvivorsUK. Here, he writes to capture the emotion of his experience – to reframe and remember it from where he stands now in the present. Please support Adam’s half marathon here. Tribulation; Endured – Adam Keane Here in the toilets of the slaughterhouse. I COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKER Emotional Support Worker. Location: London, E1W 3HW on weekdays; home working at weekends. Pay: £16.32 per hour. Hours: Flexible (see details below) + 2-4 hours per month of team meetings, supervision and line management. Contract: Zero-hours, fixed term COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT MALE SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE Common Questions. Experiences of male sexual abuse and rape can leave you confused with many unanswered questions. Here we have compiled some of the questions weOUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW Abuse against adults falls into the following broad categories: Under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence for any male to penetrate with his penis the vagina, anus or mouth of a female or male without their consent. Male rape became recognised in law in 1994 JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD)SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans and MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
WHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD)SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans and MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
WHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD) RESOURCES FOR MALE SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE London Survivors Gateway. The London Survivors Gateway provides survivors of rape and sexual abuse with tailored advice on getting support in London, and help with accessing available services and resources. You can contact them directly or be referred by aCONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
NATIONAL ONLINE HELPLINE SurvivorsUK run the National Male Survivors Online Helpline and Webchat Service which is a chat service for men who have experienced sexual abuse either as a child or an adult and allows you to have a confidential one-to-one chat with one of our trained helpliners. We also speak to close friends and family. Our helpliners are experienced in supporting you to share things at your own pace, when TRIBULATION; ENDURED Adam Keane is running a half marathon to raise money for SurvivorsUK. Here, he writes to capture the emotion of his experience – to reframe and remember it from where he stands now in the present. Please support Adam’s half marathon here. Tribulation; Endured – Adam Keane Here in the toilets of the slaughterhouse. I COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKER Emotional Support Worker. Location: London, E1W 3HW on weekdays; home working at weekends. Pay: £16.32 per hour. Hours: Flexible (see details below) + 2-4 hours per month of team meetings, supervision and line management. Contract: Zero-hours, fixed term COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT MALE SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE Common Questions. Experiences of male sexual abuse and rape can leave you confused with many unanswered questions. Here we have compiled some of the questions weOUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW Abuse against adults falls into the following broad categories: Under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence for any male to penetrate with his penis the vagina, anus or mouth of a female or male without their consent. Male rape became recognised in law in 1994 JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD)SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans andWHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.SEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
LIVING WITH TRAUMA AT A TIME OF TRAUMA: COVID-19 ONE YEAR When Covid-19 closed down the UK a year ago, it took me as a counsellor a while to adapt to a new way of working and living. It was only when the dust had settled that I began to realise what we were dealing with – a far-reaching and indiscriminate collective trauma. What was more alarming was realising that many of our instinctual responses to trauma were suddenly banned – we weren’t YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
JOIN THE #WESEEYOU MOVEMENT! Join the #WeSeeYou movement! #WeSeeYou is a campaign committed to raising awareness about male sexual abuse and assault. It’s a campaign aimed at acknowledging male victims/survivors and letting them know that they are not alone. The campaign promotes the use of new symbol to express support and challenge stigmatising attitudesthat make it
A WORD FROM OUR NEW CEO: ALEX FEIS-BRYCE A word from our new CEO: Alex Feis-Bryce. My name is Alex Feis-Bryce and I’m really proud and honoured to be the new CEO of SurvivorsUK. I’m also a survivor. I’ve experienced sexual violence twice, at very different stages of my life and in different circumstances. When I was raped as a first-year university student, barely an adult, I LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans andWHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
RESOURCES FOR MALE SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE London Survivors Gateway. The London Survivors Gateway provides survivors of rape and sexual abuse with tailored advice on getting support in London, and help with accessing available services and resources. You can contact them directly or be referred by a NATIONAL ONLINE HELPLINE SurvivorsUK run the National Male Survivors Online Helpline and Webchat Service which is a chat service for men who have experienced sexual abuse either as a child or an adult and allows you to have a confidential one-to-one chat with one of our trained helpliners. We also speak to close friends and family. Our helpliners are experienced in supporting you to share things at your own pace, when TRIBULATION; ENDURED Adam Keane is running a half marathon to raise money for SurvivorsUK. Here, he writes to capture the emotion of his experience – to reframe and remember it from where he stands now in the present. Please support Adam’s half marathon here. Tribulation; Endured – Adam Keane Here in the toilets of the slaughterhouse. I EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKER Emotional Support Worker. Location: London, E1W 3HW on weekdays; home working at weekends. Pay: £16.32 per hour. Hours: Flexible (see details below) + 2-4 hours per month of team meetings, supervision and line management. Contract: Zero-hours, fixed term COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT MALE SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE Common Questions. Experiences of male sexual abuse and rape can leave you confused with many unanswered questions. Here we have compiled some of the questions weOUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) Location: East London with some London/UK travel Salary: £28,000 – £30,000 pro rata Hours: 17.5 hours/week (days flexible) Contract: 12 month fixed term contract (possible renewal thereafter dependent on funding) Job Category: Client Services Responsible for: N/A Responsible to: ISVA & Operations Manager Closing Date: 07 October 2019 (9am) Could you support men who have experienced MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW Abuse against adults falls into the following broad categories: Under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence for any male to penetrate with his penis the vagina, anus or mouth of a female or male without their consent. Male rape became recognised in law in 1994 JOB TITLE: INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) Job Title: Independent Sexual Violence Advisor (ISVA) Salary: £28,560 pro rata Reporting to: ISVA Coordinator Hours: Full time Location: London Contract: This is a permanent contract. Purpose Provide pro-active emotional, practical and advocacy support for malesurvivors with
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An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
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Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. LIVING WITH TRAUMA AT A TIME OF TRAUMA: COVID-19 ONE YEAR When Covid-19 closed down the UK a year ago, it took me as a counsellor a while to adapt to a new way of working and living. It was only when the dust had settled that I began to realise what we were dealing with – a far-reaching and indiscriminate collective trauma. What was more alarming was realising that many of our instinctual responses to trauma were suddenly banned – we weren’t COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKERANNUAL REPORTS
Below you will find our annual reports, signed accounts and our memorandum of association. Signed Accounts 2018. Signed Accounts 2017. Signed Accounts 2016. Signed Accounts 2015. Signed Accounts 2014. Signed Accounts 2013. Signed Accounts 2012. Signed Accounts 2011. SURVIVORSUK AND WESTMINSTER HOMELESSNESS PROJECTS SurvivorsUK and Westminster Homelessness Projects have created a partnership arrangement to deliver therapeutic services to people who have experienced trauma and live the history of that trauma in the context of homelessness. This unique project brings therapy to those who would not be able to access traditional services. MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
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An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
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Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. LIVING WITH TRAUMA AT A TIME OF TRAUMA: COVID-19 ONE YEAR When Covid-19 closed down the UK a year ago, it took me as a counsellor a while to adapt to a new way of working and living. It was only when the dust had settled that I began to realise what we were dealing with – a far-reaching and indiscriminate collective trauma. What was more alarming was realising that many of our instinctual responses to trauma were suddenly banned – we weren’t COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKERANNUAL REPORTS
Below you will find our annual reports, signed accounts and our memorandum of association. Signed Accounts 2018. Signed Accounts 2017. Signed Accounts 2016. Signed Accounts 2015. Signed Accounts 2014. Signed Accounts 2013. Signed Accounts 2012. Signed Accounts 2011. SURVIVORSUK AND WESTMINSTER HOMELESSNESS PROJECTS SurvivorsUK and Westminster Homelessness Projects have created a partnership arrangement to deliver therapeutic services to people who have experienced trauma and live the history of that trauma in the context of homelessness. This unique project brings therapy to those who would not be able to access traditional services. MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
MEET THE TEAM
Alex is the Chief Executive Officer of Survivors UK. He has almost eight years as a CEO in the third sector, has developed innovative services supporting marginalised people in a criminal justice context and has also worked as a political advisor. His most recent role was as CEO of RightsInfo, a charity which promotes human rights in the UKand
INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING FOR SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN How to get started with individual counselling. 1 Contact Us. You make a self referral; 2 Assessment. We will contact you to organise an initial consultation; 3 Discussion. In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or groupwork at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you. 4 Confirmation VOLUNTEER | SURVIVORSUK Volunteer | SurvivorsUK. Tell us your thoughts. If you would like to send us your opinion on the new SurvivorsUK website, we’re all ears. Give feedback. Don't show this message again. Talk To Us. Individual chat sessions with trained individuals in confidence. Mon – Sun.12pm-8pm.
YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind.OUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant MALE SEXUAL ABUSE AND THE LAW Abuse against adults falls into the following broad categories: Under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence for any male to penetrate with his penis the vagina, anus or mouth of a female or male without their consent. Male rape became recognised in law in 1994 IMAGE BASED SEXUAL ABUSE ENDED MY LIFE Image Based Sexual Abuse, or IBSA, is where a person shares, or takes, an image of you without your consent. You might have shared an image of yourself via a dating app like Grindr, which has found its way into a more public domain. Or at the extreme end of the scale, someone might have betrayed your trust and webcam streamed, or recorded, an LGBT+ PEOPLE AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-violence organisation working with LGBT+ victims/ survivors of hate crime, domestic abuse and sexual violence, including specialist trans and JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND JOB DESCRIPTION CLINICAL SUPERVISOR, COUNSELLOR AND GROUPWORK CO-ORDINATOR Job title: Clinical Supervisor, Counsellor & Groupwork Co-ordinator Scale: £32,000 (including London Weighting) full-time equivalent Hours: up to 14 hours per week by negotiation Contract: Fixed Term Contract Responsible for: no line management Responsible to: Client Services Director (CSD)SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING FOR SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN How to get started with individual counselling. 1 Contact Us. You make a self referral; 2 Assessment. We will contact you to organise an initial consultation; 3 Discussion. In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or groupwork at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you. 4 ConfirmationSEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. VOLUNTEER | SURVIVORSUK Volunteer | SurvivorsUK. Tell us your thoughts. If you would like to send us your opinion on the new SurvivorsUK website, we’re all ears. Give feedback. Don't show this message again. Talk To Us. Individual chat sessions with trained individuals in confidence. Mon – Sun.12pm-8pm.
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Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
JOIN THE #WESEEYOU MOVEMENT! Join the #WeSeeYou movement! #WeSeeYou is a campaign committed to raising awareness about male sexual abuse and assault. It’s a campaign aimed at acknowledging male victims/survivors and letting them know that they are not alone. The campaign promotes the use of new symbol to express support and challenge stigmatising attitudesthat make it
MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING FOR SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN How to get started with individual counselling. 1 Contact Us. You make a self referral; 2 Assessment. We will contact you to organise an initial consultation; 3 Discussion. In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or groupwork at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you. 4 ConfirmationSEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. VOLUNTEER | SURVIVORSUK Volunteer | SurvivorsUK. Tell us your thoughts. If you would like to send us your opinion on the new SurvivorsUK website, we’re all ears. Give feedback. Don't show this message again. Talk To Us. Individual chat sessions with trained individuals in confidence. Mon – Sun.12pm-8pm.
OUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
JOIN THE #WESEEYOU MOVEMENT! Join the #WeSeeYou movement! #WeSeeYou is a campaign committed to raising awareness about male sexual abuse and assault. It’s a campaign aimed at acknowledging male victims/survivors and letting them know that they are not alone. The campaign promotes the use of new symbol to express support and challenge stigmatising attitudesthat make it
MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
ABOUT US | SURVIVORSUK SurvivorsUK is the only male-centric service (offering therapeutic services primarily to men as the focus of the organisation) in London. There are two other organisations that we know of offering support to men as a section of their service. All other independent sexual violence services inMEET THE TEAM
Alex is the Chief Executive Officer of Survivors UK. He has almost eight years as a CEO in the third sector, has developed innovative services supporting marginalised people in a criminal justice context and has also worked as a political advisor. His most recent role was as CEO of RightsInfo, a charity which promotes human rights in the UKand
INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKER Emotional Support Worker. Location: London, E1W 3HW on weekdays; home working at weekends. Pay: £16.32 per hour. Hours: Flexible (see details below) + 2-4 hours per month of team meetings, supervision and line management. Contract: Zero-hours, fixed term COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
ANNUAL REPORTS
Below you will find our annual reports, signed accounts and our memorandum of association. Signed Accounts 2018. Signed Accounts 2017. Signed Accounts 2016. Signed Accounts 2015. Signed Accounts 2014. Signed Accounts 2013. Signed Accounts 2012. Signed Accounts 2011. COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT MALE SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE Common Questions. Experiences of male sexual abuse and rape can leave you confused with many unanswered questions. Here we have compiled some of the questions we BEING A MAN FESTIVAL @SOUTHBANK CENTRE We are happy to announce that we will be at the Being A Man Festival this year! Being A Man celebrates boys and men, and addresses the pressures of masculine identity in the 21st century. Now in its third year, this major new festival returns to take over Southbank Centrefor three days in
WHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING FOR SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN How to get started with individual counselling. 1 Contact Us. You make a self referral; 2 Assessment. We will contact you to organise an initial consultation; 3 Discussion. In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or groupwork at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you. 4 ConfirmationSEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. VOLUNTEER | SURVIVORSUK Volunteer | SurvivorsUK. Tell us your thoughts. If you would like to send us your opinion on the new SurvivorsUK website, we’re all ears. Give feedback. Don't show this message again. Talk To Us. Individual chat sessions with trained individuals in confidence. Mon – Sun.12pm-8pm.
OUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
JOIN THE #WESEEYOU MOVEMENT! Join the #WeSeeYou movement! #WeSeeYou is a campaign committed to raising awareness about male sexual abuse and assault. It’s a campaign aimed at acknowledging male victims/survivors and letting them know that they are not alone. The campaign promotes the use of new symbol to express support and challenge stigmatising attitudesthat make it
MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
SURVIVORSUK
An estimated 12,000 men are raped in the UK every year, and more than 70,000 are sexually abused or assaulted. At SurvivorsUK we know male sexual abuse has profound effects on those who experience it and can deeply affect their mental health and relationships.CONTACT SURVIVORSUK
Find out how to contact SurvivorsUK. Call +44 (0)2035983898 or email us at help@survivorsuk.org. Lines open 9.30am to 5pm, Monday toFriday.
INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING FOR SEXUALLY ABUSED MEN How to get started with individual counselling. 1 Contact Us. You make a self referral; 2 Assessment. We will contact you to organise an initial consultation; 3 Discussion. In the initial consultation we will think about whether individual counselling, individual telephone counselling or groupwork at SurvivorsUK is the most helpful support for you. 4 ConfirmationSEXUAL ABUSE OF MEN
Myth: Sexual abuse makes you gay. Reality: Sometimes survivors question whether the sexual abuse has had an impact on their sexual orientation.You may worry that you were abused because you were gay, or that the abuse ‘made’ you gay. In our experience, the majority of men sexually abused by other men in childhood identify as heterosexual in adult life. VOLUNTEER | SURVIVORSUK Volunteer | SurvivorsUK. Tell us your thoughts. If you would like to send us your opinion on the new SurvivorsUK website, we’re all ears. Give feedback. Don't show this message again. Talk To Us. Individual chat sessions with trained individuals in confidence. Mon – Sun.12pm-8pm.
OUR POLICIES
Our employees, service users, supporters, volunteers and partners are very important to us and we value the relationship we have with them. At SurvivorsUK we aim to operate to the highest standards, that is why we have compiled a collection of our most relevant YOUNG PEOPLE (13-18) Counselling is the opportunity to speak with someone in depth about what is going on for you. You may wish to talk about the sexual abuse, other things which have happened in the past, any difficulties in your current life, concerns about the future, your feelings about yourself, managing your feelings, your relationships with others, or anything else which is on your mind. GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
JOIN THE #WESEEYOU MOVEMENT! Join the #WeSeeYou movement! #WeSeeYou is a campaign committed to raising awareness about male sexual abuse and assault. It’s a campaign aimed at acknowledging male victims/survivors and letting them know that they are not alone. The campaign promotes the use of new symbol to express support and challenge stigmatising attitudesthat make it
MEET KATHERINE COX, OUR NEW TEAM MEMBER Meet Katherine Cox, our new team member. Posted on 10th January 2017. «Hi, my name is Katherine and I am delighted to be joining the team at SurvivorsUK as clinical supervisor, counsellor and groupwork co-ordinator. I have been interested in the work of Survivors for a long time and for the past eighteen months have been fortunate enoughto do
ABOUT US | SURVIVORSUK SurvivorsUK is the only male-centric service (offering therapeutic services primarily to men as the focus of the organisation) in London. There are two other organisations that we know of offering support to men as a section of their service. All other independent sexual violence services inMEET THE TEAM
Alex is the Chief Executive Officer of Survivors UK. He has almost eight years as a CEO in the third sector, has developed innovative services supporting marginalised people in a criminal justice context and has also worked as a political advisor. His most recent role was as CEO of RightsInfo, a charity which promotes human rights in the UKand
INDEPENDENT SEXUAL VIOLENCE ADVISOR (ISVA) SERVICES Our ISVA service is open to men and boys over the age of 13, living in any London Borough and or if the abuse was committed in any London Borough. The abuse can have taken place either in childhood or adulthood. This is a free service. If you are looking for an ISVA service for girls or women in London, please contact the LondonSurvivors Gateway.
GROOMING | SURVIVORSUK Grooming. Grooming can be defined as the process that an abuser uses to desensitise you – to make you less likely to reject or report abusive behaviour. Grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. This is most commonly recognised as a tacticused by
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WORKER Emotional Support Worker. Location: London, E1W 3HW on weekdays; home working at weekends. Pay: £16.32 per hour. Hours: Flexible (see details below) + 2-4 hours per month of team meetings, supervision and line management. Contract: Zero-hours, fixed term COMMON FEELINGS & EFFECTS THAT SURVIVORS EXPERIENCE Below are some of the feelings survivors often experience whether in the direct aftermath of an assault or for many years after sexual abuse. These lists are not all-inclusive or exhaustive. Everyone reacts to sexual abuse in different ways. Common feelings EmotionalShock –
ANNUAL REPORTS
Below you will find our annual reports, signed accounts and our memorandum of association. Signed Accounts 2018. Signed Accounts 2017. Signed Accounts 2016. Signed Accounts 2015. Signed Accounts 2014. Signed Accounts 2013. Signed Accounts 2012. Signed Accounts 2011. COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT MALE SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE Common Questions. Experiences of male sexual abuse and rape can leave you confused with many unanswered questions. Here we have compiled some of the questions we BEING A MAN FESTIVAL @SOUTHBANK CENTRE We are happy to announce that we will be at the Being A Man Festival this year! Being A Man celebrates boys and men, and addresses the pressures of masculine identity in the 21st century. Now in its third year, this major new festival returns to take over Southbank Centrefor three days in
WHAT IS THE CICA?
4 The CICA will pay for up to three injuries if each is so serious that it would qualify for an award on its own. This is calculated as: 100% of the tariff value of the most serious injury 30% of the tariff amount for the injury with an equal or second highest value 15% of the tariff amount for any additional injury with an equal or third highestvalue
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AN ESTIMATED 12,000 MEN ARE RAPED IN THE UK EVERY YEAR, AND MORE THAN 70,000 ARE SEXUALLY ABUSED OR ASSAULTED. AT SURVIVORSUK WE KNOW MALE SEXUAL ABUSE HAS PROFOUND EFFECTS ON THOSE WHO EXPERIENCE IT AND CAN DEEPLY AFFECT THEIR MENTAL HEALTH ANDRELATIONSHIPS.
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TRAUMA TALKS: SURVIVORSUK COUNSELLORS LAUNCH NEW PODCAST Posted on 10th June 2020 A new podcast which explores experiences of trauma has been launch today by SurvivorsUK’s groupwork facilitator, Jeremy Sachs, and services manager & groupwork coordinator, Katherine Cox.Continue Reading
REFLECTING ON WAYS TO LIVE BETTER Posted on 5th June 2020 This blog was written by Taiwo, a young parent. It was first published on the Partnership for Young London website.Continue Reading
THE LYNCHING OF GEORGE FLOYD Posted on 5th June 2020 Lyla Smith-Abass is an Independent Sexual Violence Advisor at SurvivorsUK. She wrote this moving poem about George Floyd, who was killed by a police officer in Minnesota last week.Continue Reading
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