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FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPSBROWSEACTIVITYDOWNLOADSARTICLESSTAFFONLINE USERS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

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MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

Today I have to pick up the urn with my husbands ashes, and Im dreading it. Were going out in a sailboat to spread them on the ocean. He loved to sail and loved the ocean. It seemed fitting. He also loved the mountains, so we plan to save some of the ashes to spread there as well. I feel its nece THE EULOGY I WROTE FOR MY MOM Thank you all for coming to commemorate my mom’s life. She was a multi-faceted person. Many of you here today knew my mother personally and many of you knew her indirectly through one of her family members. You may have known her as a coworker, a friend LOST BOTH MY PARENTS 2 WEEKS AND 3 DAYS APART. Im feeling so very, very sad. My mother passed away on June 24th of this year and then my father passed away on July 11th. Its been so unreal and I dont think it has really hit me yet. I didnt really have a chance to deal with Moms death and then Dad died. I keep waiting for the grief to come, bu DO YOU FEEL "ABANDONED" BY FAMILY AND/OR FRIENDS This has happened to me but from what Im gathering is common. Family or friends or both, though they know you are hurting badly and in various real ways feeling or being very alone, dont check on you. They rarely if ever call, let alone make an effort to get together. After a small flurry of call

VISITING THE GRAVE

THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AFTER DAD DIED Hi everyone. Ive been reading these the past few days to help me, but Ive decided to post my own because I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 20. On Valentines Day of this year, CONTINUE TO SEND ANNIVERSARY CARDS OR NOT/ My question tonight is: when a spouse dies do you continue to celebrate their wedding anniversary with the surviving spouse? Dad died less than 12 hrs after he & mom celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary. Do we get Mom an anniversary card FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPSBROWSEACTIVITYDOWNLOADSARTICLESSTAFFONLINE USERS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

grandchild. 1.8k.

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MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

VISITING THE GRAVE

THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. CONTINUE TO SEND ANNIVERSARY CARDS OR NOT/ My question tonight is: when a spouse dies do you continue to celebrate their wedding anniversary with the surviving spouse? Dad died less than 12 hrs after he & mom celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary. Do we get Mom an anniversary card BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AFTER DAD DIED Hi everyone. Ive been reading these the past few days to help me, but Ive decided to post my own because I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 20. On Valentines Day of this year, FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

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WHAT DOYOU THINK? MESSAGES FROM BEYOND FOR WINGS … From the founders of Wings - A Grief Education Ministry: What do you think? Messages from Beyond Have you been touched, changed, or given a gift of peace by a unique encounter with your loved one who died? It might be difficult to believe but the stories are convincing. Many of GRIEVING 7 YEARS AFTER DEATH Hi Shel, I too lost my Father but 6 months,I have been suffering the panic attacks,it's hard,scary and I hate feeling like this.I'm trying to allow my self to cry.I try to recall the way he died over in my head and write to him in a letter.I need it to sink in my head.I could not look at his photo up until now,I force my self too and talk to him.I think I will look for a group to join and get GRIEF AFTER THE ONE YEAR MARK I wonder how many others on this site are struggling with new waves of grief after the one year mark. Somehow I just assumed that things would be easier after a year, but it seems in many ways much harder. Its now been 15 months since I lost my husband. Being alone and lonely

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WHY CAN'T I CRY?

At 5 days you're probably a little numb and in shock even though you weren't close to your Dad. Everyone reacts differently to a death but usually there is a sense of numbness soon afterwards, which may be partially to blame for your not crying. I hope this helps a bit. Take care, Kathy. Link to post. BEGINNING THE THIRD YEAR... The second year was sheer hell for me. I would not want to go back there. The third year was strange for me. I still felt a lot of pain, but realized that it would end and I would survive to feel it again when I least expect the pain. IF YOU'RE GOING THROUGH HELL All Activity; Home ; Specific Bereavement ; Loss of a Spouse, Partner, or Significant Other ; If You're Going Through Hell BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AFTER DAD DIED Hi everyone. Ive been reading these the past few days to help me, but Ive decided to post my own because I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 20. On Valentines Day of this year, DOES IT HELP TO GIVE IN TO THE FATIGUE? Hi - Ive been reading so many posts that have helped me so much, and I know that how Im feeling is probably normal, but I need some insight on coping.My mom died in March after a sudden illness. She was the rock and anchor for my dad, myself and VISIT FROM A WHITE DOVE Im not quite sure what to make of this.Yesterday, when I had just finished my work for the day, I had a powerful urge to go sit outside. So I got myself a cold drink and went out to my back patio.It was a bright, sunny day with a clear blue sky. I started to unwind as a soft breeze nudged my wind FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPSBROWSEACTIVITYDOWNLOADSARTICLESSTAFFONLINE USERS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

grandchild. 1.8k.

TOOLS FOR HEALING

MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

VISITING THE GRAVE

THREE MONTH MARK

grandchild. 1.8k.

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MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

VISITING THE GRAVE

THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AFTER DAD DIED Hi everyone. Ive been reading these the past few days to help me, but Ive decided to post my own because I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 20. On Valentines Day of this year, CONTINUE TO SEND ANNIVERSARY CARDS OR NOT/ My question tonight is: when a spouse dies do you continue to celebrate their wedding anniversary with the surviving spouse? Dad died less than 12 hrs after he & mom celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary. Do we get Mom an anniversary card FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

grandchild. 1.8k.

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WHY CAN'T I CRY?

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TOOLS FOR HEALING

MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

VISITING THE GRAVE

THREE MONTH MARK

grandchild. 1.8k.

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MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

VISITING THE GRAVE

THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AFTER DAD DIED Hi everyone. Ive been reading these the past few days to help me, but Ive decided to post my own because I really need some advice. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 20. On Valentines Day of this year, CONTINUE TO SEND ANNIVERSARY CARDS OR NOT/ My question tonight is: when a spouse dies do you continue to celebrate their wedding anniversary with the surviving spouse? Dad died less than 12 hrs after he & mom celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary. Do we get Mom an anniversary card FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

grandchild. 1.8k.

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WHY CAN'T I CRY?

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Tools for Healing. As we travel our individual grief journeys, we may find it helpful to return to activities of self-exp ression that satisfy or relax us, or we may discover new ones that bring us comfort and relief, helping us to feel calmer, more relaxed and less stressed. Here we can recommend and share whatever helps us feel informed THE EULOGY I WROTE FOR MY MOM Thank you all for coming to commemorate my mom’s life. She was a multi-faceted person. Many of you here today knew my mother personally and many of you knew her indirectly through one of her family members. You may have known her as a coworker, a friend

MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

WHY CAN'T I CRY?

At 5 days you're probably a little numb and in shock even though you weren't close to your Dad. Everyone reacts differently to a death but usually there is a sense of numbness soon afterwards, which may be partially to blame for your not crying. I hope this helps a bit. Take care, Kathy. Link to post. LOST BOTH MY PARENTS 2 WEEKS AND 3 DAYS APART. Im feeling so very, very sad. My mother passed away on June 24th of this year and then my father passed away on July 11th. Its been so unreal and I dont think it has really hit me yet. I didnt really have a chance to deal with Moms death and then Dad died. I keep waiting for the grief to come, bu GRIEVING 7 YEARS AFTER DEATH Hi Shel, I too lost my Father but 6 months,I have been suffering the panic attacks,it's hard,scary and I hate feeling like this.I'm trying to allow my self to cry.I try to recall the way he died over in my head and write to him in a letter.I need it to sink in my head.I could not look at his photo up until now,I force my self too and talk to him.I think I will look for a group to join and get DO YOU FEEL "ABANDONED" BY FAMILY AND/OR FRIENDS This has happened to me but from what Im gathering is common. Family or friends or both, though they know you are hurting badly and in various real ways feeling or being very alone, dont check on you. They rarely if ever call, let alone make an effort to get together. After a small flurry of call

THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. CONTINUE TO SEND ANNIVERSARY CARDS OR NOT/ My question tonight is: when a spouse dies do you continue to celebrate their wedding anniversary with the surviving spouse? Dad died less than 12 hrs after he & mom celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary. Do we get Mom an anniversary card FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPSBROWSEACTIVITYDOWNLOADSARTICLESSTAFFONLINE USERS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

grandchild. 1.8k.

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MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

WHY CAN'T I CRY?

At 5 days you're probably a little numb and in shock even though you weren't close to your Dad. Everyone reacts differently to a death but usually there is a sense of numbness soon afterwards, which may be partially to blame for your not crying. I hope this helps a bit. Take care, Kathy. Link to post. LOST BOTH MY PARENTS 2 WEEKS AND 3 DAYS APART. Im feeling so very, very sad. My mother passed away on June 24th of this year and then my father passed away on July 11th. Its been so unreal and I dont think it has really hit me yet. I didnt really have a chance to deal with Moms death and then Dad died. I keep waiting for the grief to come, bu GRIEVING 7 YEARS AFTER DEATH Hi Shel, I too lost my Father but 6 months,I have been suffering the panic attacks,it's hard,scary and I hate feeling like this.I'm trying to allow my self to cry.I try to recall the way he died over in my head and write to him in a letter.I need it to sink in my head.I could not look at his photo up until now,I force my self too and talk to him.I think I will look for a group to join and get DO YOU FEEL "ABANDONED" BY FAMILY AND/OR FRIENDS This has happened to me but from what Im gathering is common. Family or friends or both, though they know you are hurting badly and in various real ways feeling or being very alone, dont check on you. They rarely if ever call, let alone make an effort to get together. After a small flurry of call

THREE MONTH MARK

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WHAT DOYOU THINK? MESSAGES FROM BEYOND FOR WINGS … From the founders of Wings - A Grief Education Ministry: What do you think? Messages from Beyond Have you been touched, changed, or given a gift of peace by a unique encounter with your loved one who died? It might be difficult to believe but the stories are convincing. Many of AM I STILL IN SHOCK? You may feel frozen, numb, stunned and disconnected, unable to feel anything. You may be short of breath, confused and feel unable to cry or to speak. Suggestions for Coping with Shock. Realize that shock is nature’s way of cushioning you against the full impact of loss. GRIEF AFTER THE ONE YEAR MARK I wonder how many others on this site are struggling with new waves of grief after the one year mark. Somehow I just assumed that things would be easier after a year, but it seems in many ways much harder. Its now been 15 months since I lost my husband. Being alone and lonely

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VISIT FROM A WHITE DOVE Im not quite sure what to make of this.Yesterday, when I had just finished my work for the day, I had a powerful urge to go sit outside. So I got myself a cold drink and went out to my back patio.It was a bright, sunny day with a clear blue sky. I started to unwind as a soft breeze nudged my wind DOES IT HELP TO GIVE IN TO THE FATIGUE? Hi - Ive been reading so many posts that have helped me so much, and I know that how Im feeling is probably normal, but I need some insight on coping.My mom died in March after a sudden illness. She was the rock and anchor for my dad, myself and BEGINNING THE THIRD YEAR... The second year was sheer hell for me. I would not want to go back there. The third year was strange for me. I still felt a lot of pain, but realized that it would end and I would survive to feel it again when I least expect the pain. CONTINUE TO SEND ANNIVERSARY CARDS OR NOT/ My question tonight is: when a spouse dies do you continue to celebrate their wedding anniversary with the surviving spouse? Dad died less than 12 hrs after he & mom celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary. Do we get Mom an anniversary card NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEBODY WHO IS GRIEVING It takes all the power that the human spirit can muster to lovingly place all the pieces of a lost love away and recognize the beauty of someone else loving you. It is a constant struggle of regret over a life taken too soon, a conceived and planned future destroyed and an attempt to put a new face to the here and now.

VISITING THE GRAVE

I have been feeling like going out to the cemetery to see Adriannes gravesite. Im filled with apprehension when I think about doing it. Im wondering why I should go and then Im thinking it would be too painful to go. Anyone else having difficulty making a decision like this? Ted FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPSBROWSEACTIVITYDOWNLOADSARTICLESSTAFFONLINE USERS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

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LOST BOTH MY PARENTS 2 WEEKS AND 3 DAYS APART. Im feeling so very, very sad. My mother passed away on June 24th of this year and then my father passed away on July 11th. Its been so unreal and I dont think it has really hit me yet. I didnt really have a chance to deal with Moms death and then Dad died. I keep waiting for the grief to come, bu GRIEVING 7 YEARS AFTER DEATH Hi Shel, I too lost my Father but 6 months,I have been suffering the panic attacks,it's hard,scary and I hate feeling like this.I'm trying to allow my self to cry.I try to recall the way he died over in my head and write to him in a letter.I need it to sink in my head.I could not look at his photo up until now,I force my self too and talk to him.I think I will look for a group to join and get

THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. DOES THE GRIEF JOURNEY HAVE AN 18-MONTH MILESTONE? Does anyone know, or has anyone read anywhere, that widows or widowers often go through a meltdown 18 months after their spouse dies? I thought I had read that this happens commonly, but I havent been able to find that passage anywhere in my books on dealing with grief.Im at the 18-month point no LOSING TOUCH WITH SIBLINGS AFTER A PARENT DIES Hi, I really do not know where this goes when talking about death but here it is anyway. My mom died April 18, 2005 and my dad died August 25, 2005 and now that they are both gone I have lost most of my contact with my siblings. I live with my sister and see one brother but the other two brothers FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPSBROWSEACTIVITYDOWNLOADSARTICLESSTAFFONLINE USERS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

grandchild. 1.8k.

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THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. DOES THE GRIEF JOURNEY HAVE AN 18-MONTH MILESTONE? Does anyone know, or has anyone read anywhere, that widows or widowers often go through a meltdown 18 months after their spouse dies? I thought I had read that this happens commonly, but I havent been able to find that passage anywhere in my books on dealing with grief.Im at the 18-month point no LOSING TOUCH WITH SIBLINGS AFTER A PARENT DIES Hi, I really do not know where this goes when talking about death but here it is anyway. My mom died April 18, 2005 and my dad died August 25, 2005 and now that they are both gone I have lost most of my contact with my siblings. I live with my sister and see one brother but the other two brothers

MY BOYFRIEND DIED

My boyfriend died 3 weeks ago. He had a heart attack and I couldn’t save him. I am so sad. I have no one to talk to. My family doesn’t even check on me. All I have is my kids. I just sit and cry. I can’t work. I can’t sleep. I can’t eat. I have lost ten pounds. I miss him so much. I am completely GRIEF AFTER THE ONE YEAR MARK I wonder how many others on this site are struggling with new waves of grief after the one year mark. Somehow I just assumed that things would be easier after a year, but it seems in many ways much harder. Its now been 15 months since I lost my husband. Being alone and lonely

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AM I STILL IN SHOCK? You may feel frozen, numb, stunned and disconnected, unable to feel anything. You may be short of breath, confused and feel unable to cry or to speak. Suggestions for Coping with Shock. Realize that shock is nature’s way of cushioning you against the full impact of loss. GRIEVING 7 YEARS AFTER DEATH Hi Shel, I too lost my Father but 6 months,I have been suffering the panic attacks,it's hard,scary and I hate feeling like this.I'm trying to allow my self to cry.I try to recall the way he died over in my head and write to him in a letter.I need it to sink in my head.I could not look at his photo up until now,I force my self too and talk to him.I think I will look for a group to join and get IT'S BEEN 8 MONTHS SINCE MY MOM DIED AND I'M LOSING IT I dont even know where to begin. I lost my mom 8 months ago. She was 70 years old and she had COPD. I feel as though I am still in a fog. I always found myself in denial of how sick she really was. When she would tell me that she didnt feel good I would roll LOSING A SPOUSE IS NOT THE SAME AS LOSING A PARENT. Ive had many well meaning people approach me and tell me that they know how I feel because they have suffered the loss of a father or a mother. While suffering the loss of a parent is awful at any time it is so different. My father died when I was fourteen, but I DO YOU FEEL "ABANDONED" BY FAMILY AND/OR FRIENDS This has happened to me but from what Im gathering is common. Family or friends or both, though they know you are hurting badly and in various real ways feeling or being very alone, dont check on you. They rarely if ever call, let alone make an effort to get together. After a small flurry of call MAYBE THIS WILL HELP SOMEONE I was directed to this by someone and thought it was good. Its written by someone called Snow. Alright, here goes. Im old. What that means is that Ive survived (so far) and a lot of people Ive known and loved did not. Ive lost friends, best friends, acquaintances, co-workers, grandparents, mom, r DOES IT HELP TO GIVE IN TO THE FATIGUE? Hi - Ive been reading so many posts that have helped me so much, and I know that how Im feeling is probably normal, but I need some insight on coping.My mom died in March after a sudden illness. She was the rock and anchor for my dad, myself and CONTINUE TO SEND ANNIVERSARY CARDS OR NOT/ My question tonight is: when a spouse dies do you continue to celebrate their wedding anniversary with the surviving spouse? Dad died less than 12 hrs after he & mom celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary. Do we get Mom an anniversary card FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPSBROWSEACTIVITYDOWNLOADSARTICLESSTAFFONLINE USERS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

grandchild. 1.8k.

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MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

be.

THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. DOES THE GRIEF JOURNEY HAVE AN 18-MONTH MILESTONE? Does anyone know, or has anyone read anywhere, that widows or widowers often go through a meltdown 18 months after their spouse dies? I thought I had read that this happens commonly, but I havent been able to find that passage anywhere in my books on dealing with grief.Im at the 18-month point no LOSING TOUCH WITH SIBLINGS AFTER A PARENT DIES Hi, I really do not know where this goes when talking about death but here it is anyway. My mom died April 18, 2005 and my dad died August 25, 2005 and now that they are both gone I have lost most of my contact with my siblings. I live with my sister and see one brother but the other two brothers FORUMS - GRIEF HEALING DISCUSSION GROUPSBROWSEACTIVITYDOWNLOADSARTICLESSTAFFONLINE USERS Loss of an Infant, Child or Grandchild. There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or

grandchild. 1.8k.

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MY HUSBAND'S ASHES

be.

THREE MONTH MARK

The worst part about the three month mark is that the shock and numbness starts wearing off at about this point, and unfortunately, it gets worse. There were many times I would have given anything to go back to the numbness. I personally think that this is the point where the grief healing you need to do starts. DOES THE GRIEF JOURNEY HAVE AN 18-MONTH MILESTONE? Does anyone know, or has anyone read anywhere, that widows or widowers often go through a meltdown 18 months after their spouse dies? I thought I had read that this happens commonly, but I havent been able to find that passage anywhere in my books on dealing with grief.Im at the 18-month point no LOSING TOUCH WITH SIBLINGS AFTER A PARENT DIES Hi, I really do not know where this goes when talking about death but here it is anyway. My mom died April 18, 2005 and my dad died August 25, 2005 and now that they are both gone I have lost most of my contact with my siblings. I live with my sister and see one brother but the other two brothers

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ANTICIPATORY GRIEF AND MOURNING Extended illness, disability, severe accidental injury, a terminal diagnosis, or the aging and decline of an elderly family member can produce anticipatory grief. We are reacting and continually adapting not only to an expected loss, but to all the losses -- past, present, and future -- we encounter in that experience. These cumulative losses can shatter our assumptive world, cause us great confusion and challenge our most basic spiritual and philosophical beliefs. The resulting grief can affect us physically, emotionally, cognitively, socially and spiritually. Here we will comfort and support one another as we identify, confront and mourn these many losses.

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LOSS OF AN INFANT, CHILD OR GRANDCHILD There is nothing so wrenching as the death of a child, regardless of the child's age. This forum brings together those who have experienced such a loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss and the death of a child or grandchild.

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LOSS OF A SPOUSE, PARTNER, OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER When a husband, wife, partner, or significant other dies, life changes completely. Your identity is now different, and your entire world may have been turned upside down. Here you can share your thoughts, feelings and reactions with others whose experiences may be similar to

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LOSS OF A PARENT OR GRANDPARENT In our society, the death of a parent or grandparent is assumed to be part of the 'Natural Order of Things.' Tell that to the son, daughter or grandchild who has just lost his or her best friend. Loving (and, perhaps, conflictual) relationships with a parent over many years cement a bond not so easily broken when death occurs.

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LOSS OF A SIBLING OR TWIN Special issues arise when our brother or sister dies, no matter how old we are at the time. We may feel as if part of our own identity is lost. Whatever part our sibling would have played in our future is lost as well, casting a bittersweet shadow over everything that happens to us regardless of how wonderful it may be. Because our sibling is our peer, we’re suddenly acutely aware of our own mortality, and we may be wondering how many years of living we have left. We may blame ourselves for our sibling’s death, or even feel guilty for being the surviving child. We may suddenly feel totally alone in our responsibilities toward our parents as they grow older – or feel somehow obligated to set aside our own grief for our parents’ sake, as well as for the other family members our sibling has left behind. In this forum we are not alone; we can connect with others who’ve endured this special kind of loss.

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* Loss of twin sister

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LOSS OF A FRIEND

The death of a close friend may be considered by others as less significant than that of a family member, and bereaved friends may feel completely left out of the grieving process, as if they don’t have a legitimate right to grieve, or permission to mourn their loss. Yet for many of us, “friendgrief” can be more painful and troubling than the death of a relative. Close friends are precious and irreplaceable, and their loss is certainly worthy of grief.

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* Loss of Friendship Due to …

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LOSS OF A LOVE RELATIONSHIP Whenever there is a loss of something significant in our lives, we suffer grief. When an intimate love relationship ends – whether we were married, living together with a partner or significant other, or committed to another as part of a couple – the separation can be overwhelmingly painful. Usually for a death there is a set ritual with a funeral or memorial service, and some understanding in our culture that mourning is important. But for the death of a love relationship, there is no prescribed ritual of mourning, and the accompanying grief that is part of the divorce / breaking-up process is seldom acknowledged or accepted. The ending of a love relationship is yet another kind of death, and here we are invited to share our experiences, mourn what has been lost, and offer information, comfort and support to one another as we move forward together on this

journey.

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* Girlfriend ending relation…

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LOSS IN YOUNG ADULTHOOD Millennials are those in their 20s and early 30s who are gradually emerging into adulthood ~ no longer juveniles but not yet seasoned, experienced adults. Whether in school part time, starting a new job or navigating the early stages of an adult relationship, they may be emotionally attached and financially dependent on their parents far longer than previous generations. Experiencing a death of a loved one during this emerging stage can be overwhelming if you’re a young adult, and isolating as well. Friends with no experience with loss cannot relate. Interactions on social media may seem frivolous and insensitive. Your problems and interests are different now. This forum is especially for you ~ and aims to connect you with other young adults whose losses are similar to your own.

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* Overwhelming number of los…

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LOSS OF A PET

Companion animals offer a kind of loyalty, devotion and unconditional love that cannot be found in the more complicated relationships we have with relatives, friends and neighbors. Pain over the loss of a beloved pet is as natural as the pain we'd feel over the loss of any significant relationship -- but sometimes the loss of a special animal is trivialized by others as insignificant, as if you don't have a legitimate right to grieve. Here you'll find the understanding, comfort and support you need and deserve.

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* Living with Loss

* By Kacy

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GENERAL GRIEF & LOSS TOPICS This is an area where you can dicuss topics around death, loss, and bereavement in general.

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* How do you survive the sui… * By Widowedbysuicide

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LIVING WITH LOSS

This forum is for those whose grief is no longer fresh and raw, and whose issues may differ from those who are newly bereaved. You may have made it through the second year and beyond, but you're still in need of the companionship, understanding and support of others you'll find here as you continue on your journey. You may wish to share with others what you've learned along the way, some signs of your own progress, how this experience has changed you, what discoveries you've made about yourself, or where you plan to go from here.

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* Still slogging along

* By kayc

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NEW BEGINNINGS

As you continue to come to terms with the impact of loss on your life, you may notice your focus shifting from why this death happened to how you have grown through this experience to become a stronger person. With some satisfaction, you’ll look back on all the new tasks you have mastered, the new roles you’ve had to fill, the changes you’ve endured, and recognize how you’ve grown. As you ponder where you’ve been, where you are now and what needs to happen next, you may see a whole new you looking back at you in the mirror – someone who’s stronger, kinder and wiser than the person you once

were.

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* New Chapter in my life * By Jackie - Richard

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TOOLS FOR HEALING

As we travel our individual grief journeys, we may find it helpful to return to activities of self-expression that satisfy or relax us, or we may discover new ones that bring us comfort and relief, helping us to feel calmer, more relaxed and less stressed. Here we can recommend and share whatever helps us feel informed, cared for and nurtured: the ideas, tools, resources and practical information we can revisit and use throughout our grief experience (books, music, videos, meditations, quotations, poetry, art, writings, webinars, seminars and

the like).

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* Newsletters

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TRIBUTES AND REMEMBRANCES

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HONORING A LOVED ONE Here is a space where we can honor our loved ones, in any way that is meaningful to us ~ a letter, a poem, an essay, a eulogy, an obituary, a prayer, a Web site ~ or we can share with one another a ritual that

brought us comfort.

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* After my recent loss....mu…

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* July 20

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SPECIAL DAYS

Here we can pay tribute to our loved ones -- or offer comfort to another member -- on a day that holds special meaning for us, such as a birthday, death day, anniversary or holiday.

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* Best friend’s first weddin…

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* February 4

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